SeekingArrangement Review

Written by dating expert Jennifer Carter.
Last updated: February 17, 2021

Seeking Arrangements matches wealthy and successful people with younger, attractive members looking for someone to pamper them. The website provides a venue for people to be upfront about what they want so that both parties are happy with the arrangement and can continue to be honest with each other.

I’ve reviewed many dating sites in my time, but this one seemed to be one of the most intriguing dating platforms out there. This comprehensive review of the site looks at the sign-up process, the various ways to contact members, the differences between a basic and premium membership, and more. It also looks at whether Seeking Arrangements offers legit matches and lives up to its reputation. Let’s put the site to the test with this Seeking review.

  • One-on-one video chatting
  • Additional security protection including two-factor authentication and security questions
  • New profiles are moderated manually and through AI, which ensures that most fake profiles are removed
  • Diamond Club certification verifies net worth
  • Most plans don’t have automatic re-billing
  • A strong member base of over 10 million users
  • Sugar Babies can send and receive messages for free. A limited trial is available for Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommies
  • Background checks are limited to the U.S.
  • While there is an app for Android users, it’s web-based, and there’s yet to be an iOS app made available
  • The prompts to upgrade can be a bit overwhelming

Member Information has been around since 2005 and has helped thousands of Sugar Babies find someone to pamper them. The profiles have one clear goal in mind: ask questions designed to establish a relationship that suits both parties. As a result, there’s no confusion about what people are looking for, and what they can expect from a potential match. Speaking of which, there’s no shortage of matches to be found. Seeking Arrangement has more than 10 million active members on its site, with eight million Sugar Babies, and more than two million Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommas. Members represent almost 150 countries, with people all over the world looking for their sugar partner.

Sign Up Process


Sign Up Process seeking arrangement

Getting started was easy enough. All I had to do was enter a few details, such as my name, email address, gender, and the kind of account I wanted to create. The kind of account is based on whether I was looking for a Successful older member or an Attractive older member. Then, as is always the case, I was required to confirm that I wanted to sign up by clicking a link in an email, which activated my account.

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Next, it came to completing my profile and uploading at least one photo approved by the site. Once my photo had been approved, I had access to most of the site’s features. That includes searching for members and viewing their profiles and public photos. Most parts of the sign-up process have an option to “Skip”, so you can see what’s inside the membership area of the site sooner, and then fill out the rest later.

Contacting People


Contacting People seeking arrangement

Once I had activated my account, finding potential matches was easy. I searched for members by narrowing down to my favored age, height, weight, relationship status, occupation, and smoking habits. Sugar Daddies and Mummies list their net worth, annual income, and monthly budget for their Sugar Baby. Sugar babies include their desired monthly allowance.

There are numerous ways of communicating with other members. When sending a message, I could either contact a member from the search results directly or add members to my favorites list to show that I’m interested in them. I could even do this with a free membership. However, an advantage of upgrading to a premium membership is that I could send messages anonymously, i.e. without my picture showing.



Profile seeking-arrangement

Even though I had the opportunity to add information to my profile during the account creation process, I could add even more info later to ensure I stand out from the competition.

These fields are optional. While I haven’t filled them out yet, I’m planning on doing that next to see if it helps me get more messages, and more replies to those I send myself. Seeking encourages members to fill these fields out, so I suppose they must be helpful in some way. The site even awards profile boosts, such as extra coverage on the site.

I could also upload additional photos for free, although they would always need to undergo an approval process. Once approved, I could then make them visible or invisible at will.

I could have both a private gallery and a public one. The only way to see another member’s private picture is to ask permission. I could even select parts of my profile to make private as well.

I didn’t like that my recent activity displays on my profile, and I could only change that if I upgrade my membership.

Mobile App


Mobile App seeking-arrangement

There are no dedicated mobile apps available, but you can download and install a progressive web app from the Google Play Store. While it’s web-based, it’s similar to an app in that it includes a home screen icon, push notifications, and other app-like features. The website is also responsive, making for a user-friendly experience when accessing it on a mobile device, even if you don’t use the web-based app.

Membership Options


Membership Options seeking-arrangement

As a free user, I was able to send messages to other users. Both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mummies who are signed up with a Standard Successful membership can send a maximum of 10 messages for free. That’s something I’m making use of. Unfortunately, however, I can’t view any messages sent from anyone else. Sugar Babies signed up to a free Standard Attractive membership can send and receive messages once they’ve uploaded a picture approved by the site.

By upgrading to a premium membership, I’d have access to a host of additional features, such as stronger privacy settings and priority listings. It costs $80 per month for a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mommy. Sugar Babies can join for only $20, although anyone using a college email address can sign up for free. Sugar Daddies also have a purchase option of a one-month Diamond membership.

The Bottom Line

Seeking Arrangement is a niche online dating site that provides a service you can’t find on many other dating sites. With the site’s upfront nature, you don’t need to concern yourself with being scammed or being contacted by unscrupulous members. Other sites might come and go, but Seeking Arrangements is one of the first sugar baby dating sites around, and it continues to attract members from all over the world.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is There a Seeking Arrangement App?

While there’s no dedicated Seeking app, the mobile website offers many app-like features, which means that mobile users can access the site and search for matches on the go.

Is the Seeking Arrangement Website Responsive?

Yes, the website adapts to the screen size of whatever device you’re using, so you’ll get a great user experience whether you’re logging in from your desktop, laptop computer, smartphone, or tablet.

Is Seeking Arrangement Free?

Yes, it’s free to create a basic account with Seeking Arrangements, and it comes with numerous features. However, you can also create a premium account if you want to make the most out of the site.

Seeking Arrangement Delete Account

To delete your Seeking Arrangement account, click on your name in the right corner of the page in and then go to settings. You’ll then be able to see a ‘deactivate account’ button at the bottom of the settings page. Finally, you’ll just need to choose one of the given reasons for you closing your account.

Secret Benefits vs Seeking Arrangements: What’s the Difference?

Seeking Arrangements is for both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mummies, while Secret Benefits only caters to the former. Seeking Arrangement also has a far larger member database. You can read our review of Secret Benefits here.

Can I Block Another Member on the site?

Yes, if there’s a member who you don’t want to contact you, you can block them. Your profile will be private from them, and they won’t be able to send you messages or contact you in any other way.

How Can I Contact Seeking Arrangement Support?

You can get in touch with customer service by submitting a support ticket. There’s also a comprehensive help section with articles that define a Sugar Daddy Arrangement and explain how the service works. This information can be found on every page on the site. There’s also a blog with weekly posts that offer news about the site and helpful information about the Sugar Daddy lifestyle.